Connection. Confidence.
Belonging.
behavior support | parent coaching | autism education | inclusion consulting
Serving Western Nevada County, CA and beyond
At Butterfly Behavior, we meet every family where they are through personalized, evidence-based behavior and development support for parents and inclusion consulting for parents and educators of children ages 2–7, specializing in Autism and neurodiversity. Together, we'll go beneath the surface to build practical strategies, navigate challenges, support your child's development, and prepare them for success at home, school, and beyond. Through warm, collaborative guidance tailored to your family's unique needs, you'll gain the confidence, skills, and support to create calmer days, deeper connection, and more quality time together.
Relationships
together.
Let's redefine how we build
Welcome
Our Services
Your child has a team - now you do, too. Select the level of support that's right for you. Every service begins with an Initial Consultation.
Private Coaching
Hands-on coaching and support in your own home. Together, we'll build strength-based connection, create learning opportunities through play, and directly apply proactive and responsive strategies to minimize challenges and maximize success. Choose a package of two or four 90-minute sessions. Packages include an Initial Consult & Goal Setting Session.
Learn the Conscious Attunement Method in a potent, 12-week journey of growth and empowerment. In this hand-on container, you'll learn the foundations of behavior, receive personalized in-home coaching on applying practical strategies for long lasting impact, and gain the tools and confidence to work through any challenge like a Behavior Analyst. A lifechanging new lens on parenting and building connection.
Empowered Journey
(Coming soon)
Practical guidance and deep discussion grounded in compassion and behavior science. Get to the root of challenges with clear, tailored recommendations for your specific needs. Ideal for caregivers and educators seeking guidance on a specific concern or exploring whether ongoing coaching is the right fit.
Virtual Consultation
Comprehensive Behavior & Development Assessment
A clinical-grade analysis to identify exactly what your child needs to flourish. Assessments include Initial Consultation, in-person observation(s), developmental assessments, and a comprehensive analysis report with a personalized recommendations. Together, we'll create a family support plan as unique as your child.
Empowering teachers and homeschool leaders with inclusion tools that can help support any student's success. We co-create learning environments where every student feels seen, safe, and supported through compassionate care and effective strategies every student can benefit from.
Educators & Caregivers
Our Families & Community
Our Families and Communities
We partner with parents and educators of young children (ages 2-7) to minimize challenges, maximize connection, and create lasting, meaningful change through the power of motivation. In-person coaching services are available in Western Nevada County, CA.
Educators & Child Services
Empowering teachers and homeschool leaders with inclusion tools that can help support any student's success. We co-create learning environments where every student feels seen, safe, and supported through compassionate care and effective strategies every student can benefit from.
Parents & Caregivers
Supporting parents and caregivers who are navigating the complexities of early childhood or neurodivergent development, or simply those wanting to learn how to support their child to the fullest through relationship building, evidence-based positive practices, and applicable tools for harmonious home life.
Read More about common challenges we can overcome.
Whether you're navigating challenging behaviors, communication delays, emotional regulation, toilet training, social skills, daily routines, or preparing for school, behavior consulting gives you the tools to respond with confidence. Every recommendation is personalized to your child's strengths, your family's values, and the goals that matter most to you.
Closing Communication Gaps
Whether your child is vocal or non-vocal, we help you translate behavior into meaningful needs and teach you how to teach your child to effectively communicate their wants and needs.
Regulation & Sensory Needs
Identifying triggers and creating environments for regulated learning, social connection, and more easeful participation.
Building Connection
Strengthening the parent-child bond as the ultimate foundation for success through the power of motivation, play, and simple behavior principles.
Teaching New Skills
Teach your child new skills and reach their next milestones with evidence-based techniques and behavior artistry.
Smoothing Daily Routines
Smoothing the path between activities through motivation, the right assistance, and proactive strategies.
Behavior Support
Empowering you with the tools and fine-tune lens to reduce overwhelming challenges with proactive strategies, effective responses, and functional alternatives.
Expert Guidance. Attuned Support.
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What to Prepare
No formal diagnosis, insurance, or paperwork is required to get started. Just bring your questions and a willingness to explore new ways of redefining your relationship with your child.
Getting Started with Butterfly Behavior
We know that starting new supports can feel overwhelming. Our process is designed to be clear, collaborative, and entirely heart-led.
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How To Book
Booking links will bring you to the Client Portal. Click "Book Appointments", then select your location and your service. Register your Zanda account to securely check out. Log in to manage appointments .
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Complete Intake
You will receive an email with instructions on completing your initial intake forms and next steps. Forms must be completed 12 hours before your first appointment so they can be reviewed.
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Join The Meeting
Log in to your Zanda account, select "My Appointments", and join the meeting with the secure link at your scheduled time. Get in early to ensure there are no delays. Subsequent sessions will be scheduled together.
Connection First
Evidence with Heart
Meaningful relationships are the foundation of growth. We prioritize trust, safety, and genuine connection to help children and families learn together with confidence. Strategies emphasize the power of motivation over power struggles, and assent over compliance.
Our recommendations are grounded in the science of behavior analysis while honoring each child's individuality, family values, and lived experiences. We believe effective support can be both evidence-based and co-created with what matters most.
The Heart of Butterfly Behavior
Inclusion for Every Mind
Empowered Families
Every child deserves to belong. We celebrate neurodiversity and work alongside families, educators, and communities to create environments where every child is welcomed, understood, and supported.
Parents know their children best. Rather than creating dependence on professionals, we equip caregivers with practical skills, knowledge, and confidence so positive change continues long after our work together.
Supported Connection
Your Guide to
Hi, I'm Grace Oliveira from Grass Valley, CA, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, Behavior Artist, and founder of Butterfly Behavior and Inclusion Consulting. For over 13 years, I've walked in deep devotion to serving children and families navigating life with Autism through evidence-based, relationship-centered guidance. My passion is helping families better understand their child's unique way of learning while building practical skills that foster communication, confidence, and meaningful connection. I believe every family deserves compassionate guidance that honors their values, celebrates neurodiversity, and empowers them to create lasting, positive change - because every mind belongs. It is an honor to serve you!
With Grace & Gratitude,
M. Grace Oliveira, M.Ed., BCBA, LBA
BCBA 1-21-52766
Grace Oliveira, BCBA
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